Sex Secrets You Need To Know
Article by Hope Alexander
April 16 2008. Article viewed 20397 times.
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Want to know what women really think when it comes to sex? Want to know how to get a woman to turn into a dirty little eager slut in your arms? Here are a few secrets extracted from the secret girly conversations that men normally never hear.
Duration Isn´t Everything
Some men pride themselves on being able to go on for hours and hours and hours. What they may not realize is that women don´t necessarily want to go for hours and hours themselves. Whilst the multiple orgasm is a wonderful thing if it can be achieved (and realistically speaking, it isn´t going to happen every time you have sex), quite often the result of prolonged thrusting isn´t orgasmic joy, it´s chafing and extreme boredom. This isn´t to say that a 30 second love making session is okay, it´s just to let you in on the hint that sometimes, just sometimes, she´s okay with 10 or 15 minutes too.
Her Period Makes Her Horny
Some men know this, but for many, this remains a secret. During that premenstrual time, the time when she´s violently kicking you out of the house one moment and wrapping her arms around you and telling you she loves you passionately the next, there´s also a high chance that she is horny as all hell. Depending on the woman, this horniness can stay with her into her period, though this depends very much on the woman and how much her period kicks her ass. If she´s not curled up with cramps, and she has that naughty look in her eye, don´t be turned off sex during her period. Of course, if you have an aversion to messiness, it is probably best not to go there. Some men find sex at this time to be particularly enjoyable however, perhaps due to the added lubrication.
Size Does Matter
You knew this already of course, but it may not matter in quite the way you think it does. Whilst having a very very small penis can be a problem, most men (who fall between about 5-6 inches in length) are about right for most women. In fact, men with extremely large penises often have trouble during sex because the woman is afraid of them, or because they hurt her every time they penetrate. So don´t envy the legendary “donkey dicks” too much, whilst some, ahem, ´larger´ women might be able to accommodate them, the majority of ladies don´t appreciate being stretched out like a balloon.
She´s Not A Madonna Or A Whore, She´s A Woman
There´s an old fashioned common perception that still persists today in many circles that women are beautiful aloof creatures who are quite removed from the carnal desires of lust, and that men are permanently horny beasts who want to mount everything they see with legs. The fact of the matter is, many women think about sex just as much as men, and their fantasies are every bit as dirty as yours. You want to talk dirty? Don´t think that her ears will shatter if she hears you whispering dirty words into them. You want a threesome? There´s a chance she does too.
Women tend to be more reserved about their sexual desires because they don´t want to be seen as sluts, or ´easy´ women. Event though there has been a massive sexual revolution taking place over the past few decades, it is still not really seen as being desirable for a woman to be a “dirty girl”. Let me rephrase that, it is seen as highly desirable for a woman to be a dirty girl, in terms of sexual attraction, but women perceived in this fashion aren´t often considered as life mates, rather they are seen as girls for a fun time and nothing more. There´s nothing wrong with having a good time, but if you want a serious girlfriend or even a wife who isn´t afraid to indulge you in the bedroom, it may be time to drop the madonna/whore approach to women.
Of course, even if you don´t have this attitude, there are a great many men who do, and women as well for that matter. So if there is a girl you like, but find to be too sexually distant or perhaps even frigid, you might want to try making her feel safe being sexual with you. Most women would love to be able to fuck like animals and still have a door opened for them in the morning, and perhaps even later on down the line, a ring on their finger, and lets face it, most men who fear being stuck in boring, dull, sexless marriages or relationships want the same. The problem is that men and women both often unconsciously act out the roles that they think society has given them, even to the point where it makes them miserable.
If you want a hot sexy lady who isn´t afraid to experiment sexually, or to express herself in the bedroom, show her that she can be that way with you and you will still call her the next day, or make breakfast for her the next morning, in short, that you will still care for her and respect her even if she is your dirty little whore in the bedroom.
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